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Eric Church’s Impactful First Toby Keith Meeting

Eric Church toured with Toby Keith in 2011 on the “Locked & Loaded Tour.” When Toby passed away last Monday (2/6), Eric began thinking about all the stories he had…

Eric Church and Toby Keith in a side by side shot collage.

Eric relives some of his best moments with Toby. Rest in peace to a country legend.

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Eric Church toured with Toby Keith in 2011 on the "Locked & Loaded Tour." When Toby passed away last Monday (2/6), Eric began thinking about all the stories he had about the country superstar.

Church told us about his first meeting with Toby at a local Nashville bar. Eric said, "I have a thousand Toby Keith stories – some I can share and some not – but the first time I met Toby, we both frequented a bar in Printer's Alley in Nashville called The Fiddle and Steel Guitar Bar."

He continued, "I remember walking in my first time, and apparently, some of the patrons had been harassing a bartender behind the bar, and as I walked in, Toby had taken the guy harassing the patrons and had drug him by his shirt collar all the way down the bar. And as I walked in the door, the guy dropped in front of me, and I look up, and there's Toby Keith, and I kinda stuck out my hand and said, 'Hi,' and we met."

Eric concluded, "Toby was always a guy that did things his own way, and I think of that fondly now when I think of him. We got to be friends later and toured with him, but that's how I met him. He laid a guy out at my feet at the Fiddle and Steel."

Toby's family will be holding a memorial service in the coming days. They posted to his Instagram, "The Covel Family is hosting a private funeral service for family, band and crew only in mid-February. A memorial service to honor Toby will be announced only on Toby's socials shortly. In lieu of flowers, the family appreciates donations to @tkfoundation1 to support the OK Kids Korral."

Many fans reacted to the post, including one who wrote, "May God continue to comfort and bless family and friends. Toby meant so much to so many. May his legacy live on." Another fan commented, "I'm so sad that this talented, sweet, patriotic icon has passed away! He will be missed!"

Toby Keith's passing at the age of 62 last night (2/5) has hit the country music community hard. The Country Music Hall of Fame said, "Toby Keith was big, brash, and never bowed down or slowed down for anyone. He wrote his breakthrough songs and later formed his own record label when he felt underserved by Nashville. For three decades, he reflected the defiant strength of the country music audience. His memory will continue to stand tall."

In October, before his death, Keith took to Instagram to reveal that he would play two shows in Las Vegas in December.  In a video clip posted to Instagram, Toby said, "Hi everybody, this is Toby Keith. It's been a while. You know what I've been doing, been on the old roller coaster, but Almighty is riding shotgun. He's letting me drive for some reason. I'm making a big announcement. I'm doing a little deal, and I would start with Great Las Vegas at the MGM at Dolby Live at the park at MGM on December 10 and 11; you can do the National Finals Rodeo and the show if you want to. I was gonna sit around here and do nothing like I have been or get up and go outside and not let the old man in, you know what I mean?" Sadly, that

He added in part, "The old devil has been after me a little bit, but I have him by the horns right now. So instead of just sitting around and waiting, we're gonna get the band back together, so come on out, hang out at the rodeo, and watch the show. We're gonna have a blast. Get it all going again, big dog daddy style. Should have been a cowboy; go to the rodeo. See ya."

Those Vegas shows, which played through January (2024), were his last shows on stage playing for fans.

Blake Shelton presented his fellow Oklahoman with the "Country Icon Award" at the September inaugural People's Choice Country Awards (2023).

Early in his career, almost 20 years ago (2004), Blake toured and opened shows for Toby Keith nationwide. At the time, he told me, "Toby is one of those guys that is so famous and so big, and he is one of those artists that's just worldwide. You don't have to be a country music fan to be a Toby Keith fan. It's just way bigger than that. I step on stage with over 20 thousand people per night, and 15,000 of them may or may not have ever heard of me. Touring with Toby has probably been the biggest break I've had since I started doing this."

As the world shines a light on Toby Keith and his music today (2/6) with his passing, we shine a light on five of his greatest songs.

"Should've Been a Cowboy" (1993)

This is his debut single and the song people will always associate with Toby. Many artists mentioned the song and its lyrics in their tribute to him after his death (2/6). Keith wrote the song himself, and it has always been his anthem. The song has received more than three million spins on country radio, making it the most-played country song of the 1990s. Over the years, the song has been a staple following sporting events at Oklahoma State University (home of the Cowboys), often played over the venue's PA system several times in succession as fans emptied the stadium or arena.

"How Do You Like Me Now?!" (1999)

This song brought Keith to superstardom. Toby told me the inspiration for the song in 2000. "Initially, I said, 'Here's my title: 'You Never Loved Me Before, So How Do You Like Me Now?' It's one of my catchphrases. A lot of people become successful after they've been told they won't ever be so that people can relate to this. It can be about an old flame or a boss or a teacher -whatever it means to each individual. It was a fun song to write."

"I Wanna Talk About Me" (2001)

This is another fun song and a big hit for Keith. The song was originally pitched to Blake Shelton, whose label turned it down. After recording the song, Keith said he knew he would get banged around for the song a bit. He noted, "They're going to call it a rap, [although] there ain't nobody doing rap who would call it a rap."

The music video for the song shows Toby in many different situations, including a man shopping with his girlfriend or wife, a police officer, a motorcycle rider, and a surgeon.

"Courtesy of the Red, White, and Blue (The Angry American)" (2002)

The song he wrote after the 9/11 attacks on America and was also inspired by Keith's father's death in March 2001. In a November 2003 interview with CBS, Keith said of writing the song: "I was so angry when we were attacked here on American soil that it leaked out of me."

The music video for the song features Toby performing the song, playing a red, white, and blue guitar, and showing images of his own father fighting in a war.

"Red Solo Cup" (2011)

Keith sure is good at fun party songs, and he proved it once again with this song, which was the only song on the album Clancy's Tavern that he did not write. The song was written by the Warren Brothers in Nashville.

The music video includes cameos from Jeff Dunham (and his character Bubba J), Carrot Top, Ted Nugent, Sammy Hagar, Craig Ferguson, Geoff Peterson, Roger Clemens, Eric Church, Joe Nichols, Lance Burton, and Larry Bird, among others.

Nancy Brooks has been working in the country music industry for almost 30 years. She has interviewed pretty much any country star you can think of. In the late 1990s, she started working with Dolly Parton. And yes, Nancy reports that Parton is as sweet as you would think. She loves her life in country music and has been backstage at every CMA Awards show since the late 1990s. Many of her stories are from her one-on-one interviews. She was there at the beginning of the incredible careers of many music superstars today, including Taylor Swift, Shania Twain, and Blake Shelton, and has interviewed them multiple times throughout the years.